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Pisces: compassion with a shape of its own

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Original article in English.

There are moments when another person's feeling seems to enter your body before you have decided how to respond. A room's sadness becomes your sadness; someone's hope carries you with it. Pisces invites us to reflect on the permeability of the heart. This can be a source of imagination and care. It also raises a necessary question: how can you remain available to others without losing the distinction between their life and your own?

Adar, Kof, and the possibility of joy

Matityahu Glazerson's Above the Zodiac associates Adar with Pisces, the letter Kof, also transliterated Qof, and merriment. His chapter explores change, imitation, and sanctity in relation to Purim. The theme is more demanding than simply being cheerful. It concerns the possibility that an established way of seeing ourselves and our circumstances can be transformed. 1

Adar is a Hebrew month, not an exact equivalent of the tropical Pisces season. The correspondence can be contemplated by anyone. Nor does merriment create an obligation to feel happy when life is painful. A spiritual reading of joy should make room for grief, fatigue, and uncertainty rather than treating them as evidence that someone has failed to believe correctly.

The image of imitation offers a useful beginning. We learn ways of speaking, caring, and responding by watching others. Some patterns make us more generous; others teach us to disappear in order to remain accepted. Ask whose emotional posture you borrow when a situation becomes difficult. Is that posture helping you respond, or merely helping you look like the person you think you should be?

Sensitivity that remains truthful

Pisces is traditionally a water sign ruled by Jupiter. Modern astrology adds Neptune, but that later association should be distinguished from the older framework used in Jewish astrological writing. Here those ideas support reflection; they are not claims that a birth sign grants supernatural knowledge of another person's mind.

Empathy becomes more trustworthy when it remains willing to ask. You may feel sure that a friend is upset, yet the cause you imagine could be wrong. Offering a gentle question respects both your sensitivity and their authority over their own experience. It gives them the opportunity to be known rather than interpreted from a distance.

The same distinction matters when helping. You can accompany someone through a difficult period without becoming responsible for every outcome. Compassion does not require answering every message immediately, accepting every demand, or abandoning your own obligations. A clear limit can preserve the relationship by making your presence sustainable. Without it, care may slowly turn into exhaustion and hidden resentment.

In Kabbalistic language, tikkun means repair or rectification. Applied to this theme, repair can mean giving compassion a shape: what you can offer, when you can offer it, and what belongs to the other person to decide. The shape does not make the care less sincere. It allows the care to exist in the world of actual time, attention, and human capacity.

Glazerson's treatment of Adar also makes room for change. That possibility can soften an identity built around being the wounded one, the rescuer, or the person who always understands. You may have occupied one of those roles for a long time without being required to remain there forever. A new response can begin before you have a completely new story about yourself. 1

Make joy an act of participation

Choose one small activity that brings you into contact with life rather than away from it. Listen attentively to music, prepare something to share, walk with a friend, or make time for creative work without requiring it to be impressive. Notice whether the experience leaves you more present afterward. The aim is not to manufacture a mood but to allow a little room for delight.

Then review one place where your helpfulness has become unclear. Ask yourself what was requested, what you volunteered, and what you assumed you had to carry. Communicate a boundary kindly if one is needed. This original exercise joins the theme of merriment with the practical conditions that make openness sustainable; it is not a traditional Purim ritual or a guarantee of healing.

Pisces can teach a compassion that remains spacious without becoming formless. You can be moved by another life and still inhabit your own. You can welcome mystery without surrendering discernment. What would help your tenderness remain both open and honest? The answer may be a boundary, an act of creativity, or a moment of joy that asks nothing of you except participation.

Sources and approach

1. Matityahu Glazerson, Above the Zodiac: Astrology in Jewish Thought, translated by M. Kalish (Jason Aronson, 1997), chapter 12, “Adar—Pisces,” and the preface and introduction. Consulted in the reader-supplied EPUB. Chapter references are used because EPUB page numbers vary.

2. The Kabbalah Centre, “Pisces (Adar)”, consulted October 7, 2026. The article is hosted on the Centre’s ONEHOUSE site.

An original Astroemotion interpretation. The month, letter, and faculty associations follow Glazerson’s presentation; mystical correspondences vary across traditions. The practical examples and exercises are contemporary applications, not quotations from the book or claims of scientific causation. Jewish views on astrology are diverse; this series presents one interpretive approach.